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	<title>Comments on: Adam Shepard loves being poor! (Except that he&#8217;s not.)</title>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
		<link>http://blog.filife.com/adam-shepard-loves-being-poor-except-that-hes-not/#comment-12081</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 22:40:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Adam Shepard is, in my opinion, not too different from what I call "Nomadic Trustafarians."  Picture this, young rich brats, usually just out of college (as Shepard) from areas of socio-economic deprivation like Lincoln and Duxbury, MA; most of Fairfield County, CT; Scarsdale and Great Neck, NY; Alpine and Summit, NJ; the "Main Line" near Philly, etc.

These rich, college educated, but very naive people temporarily "go native" in many third world countries, notably Costa Rica, Ecuador, and Thailand.  After spending 6-12 months "keeping it real" and eschewing western culture (except for the things these people "need," such as a multi-band cell phone and an internet connection), they return to the Larchmonts and Marbleheads of America and act if they have been "transformed" by the experience.

Here is an anecdotal account of "Muffie" calling her friend "Leesa" (notice the affectated spellings?). Muffie is just about to return to West Moneybucks, CT from 10 months in Costa Rica.  Leesa returned from Nepal a week earlier. Of course, Leesa and Muffie want to get together to discuss how "fabulous" their slumming-it-with-the-natives experiences were.

Leesa offers to pick up Muffie at JFK.  Leesa told Muffie she will be driving "dad's car."  "Oh, which one?," Muffie asked.  Leesa replied, without any tint of irony in her voice, "I'm not sure if I want to take the 2005 Jag, the 2003 BMW Convertible, or mom's 2007 Acura MDX."  Muffie asked Leesa to take the Acura, since she thinks her backpack will fit best in the SUV.

Just as most of his trustafarian brethren return "close to home" after about 10 months or so, Adam Shepard returned back to his wealthy North Carolina family, ostensibly due to "family problems."  HELLO?  Poor people have family problems, also.  However, the REAL poor cannot escape the "Trustafarian Disneyland" when there are family issues.

These people must continue to WORK and SCRAPE BY in spite of whatever life throws at them.  If these people are lucky enough to even have a car, it is likely out of warranty and prone to mechanical breakdowns.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adam Shepard is, in my opinion, not too different from what I call &#8220;Nomadic Trustafarians.&#8221;  Picture this, young rich brats, usually just out of college (as Shepard) from areas of socio-economic deprivation like Lincoln and Duxbury, MA; most of Fairfield County, CT; Scarsdale and Great Neck, NY; Alpine and Summit, NJ; the &#8220;Main Line&#8221; near Philly, etc.</p>
<p>These rich, college educated, but very naive people temporarily &#8220;go native&#8221; in many third world countries, notably Costa Rica, Ecuador, and Thailand.  After spending 6-12 months &#8220;keeping it real&#8221; and eschewing western culture (except for the things these people &#8220;need,&#8221; such as a multi-band cell phone and an internet connection), they return to the Larchmonts and Marbleheads of America and act if they have been &#8220;transformed&#8221; by the experience.</p>
<p>Here is an anecdotal account of &#8220;Muffie&#8221; calling her friend &#8220;Leesa&#8221; (notice the affectated spellings?). Muffie is just about to return to West Moneybucks, CT from 10 months in Costa Rica.  Leesa returned from Nepal a week earlier. Of course, Leesa and Muffie want to get together to discuss how &#8220;fabulous&#8221; their slumming-it-with-the-natives experiences were.</p>
<p>Leesa offers to pick up Muffie at JFK.  Leesa told Muffie she will be driving &#8220;dad&#8217;s car.&#8221;  &#8220;Oh, which one?,&#8221; Muffie asked.  Leesa replied, without any tint of irony in her voice, &#8220;I&#8217;m not sure if I want to take the 2005 Jag, the 2003 BMW Convertible, or mom&#8217;s 2007 Acura MDX.&#8221;  Muffie asked Leesa to take the Acura, since she thinks her backpack will fit best in the SUV.</p>
<p>Just as most of his trustafarian brethren return &#8220;close to home&#8221; after about 10 months or so, Adam Shepard returned back to his wealthy North Carolina family, ostensibly due to &#8220;family problems.&#8221;  HELLO?  Poor people have family problems, also.  However, the REAL poor cannot escape the &#8220;Trustafarian Disneyland&#8221; when there are family issues.</p>
<p>These people must continue to WORK and SCRAPE BY in spite of whatever life throws at them.  If these people are lucky enough to even have a car, it is likely out of warranty and prone to mechanical breakdowns.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Charlotte</title>
		<link>http://blog.filife.com/adam-shepard-loves-being-poor-except-that-hes-not/#comment-1182</link>
		<dc:creator>Charlotte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 19:56:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Does Shepherd not think that the majority of people currently living in shelters across the country once had apartments, cars, and money in the bank? The reason why he "quit" says it all - a family member got sick. If he did not in fact come from a wealthy background, most likely full of the best health insurance money can buy, doesn't he think that a family member getting sick would have spelled economic disaster for that person, and possibly their extended family as well? All that person would need is a single CAT scan and his much-vaunted $5,000 savings would have been gone. 

At first, the only problem I had with Shepard's book is the whole "slumming it" tone is takes (poor people swear!) but I still found the whole experiment interesting. It's the attitude him (and his new acolytes) have taken with even the slightest criticism - so what is he's white, healthy, young, and unencumbered by debt/family/medical problems? This proves anybody can do this, they just don't want to! They're too busy putting rims on their cars! Why not just admit the experiment is of course slanted, the way any actual journalist/investigator would, and move on?

Oh, I forgot. His personal experiences can of course be extended to everybody in America. 

I was also disappointed by the overall level of writing in the book, but that's what happens when a rich kid who skated through college on daddy's money writes a book.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Does Shepherd not think that the majority of people currently living in shelters across the country once had apartments, cars, and money in the bank? The reason why he &#8220;quit&#8221; says it all - a family member got sick. If he did not in fact come from a wealthy background, most likely full of the best health insurance money can buy, doesn&#8217;t he think that a family member getting sick would have spelled economic disaster for that person, and possibly their extended family as well? All that person would need is a single CAT scan and his much-vaunted $5,000 savings would have been gone. </p>
<p>At first, the only problem I had with Shepard&#8217;s book is the whole &#8220;slumming it&#8221; tone is takes (poor people swear!) but I still found the whole experiment interesting. It&#8217;s the attitude him (and his new acolytes) have taken with even the slightest criticism - so what is he&#8217;s white, healthy, young, and unencumbered by debt/family/medical problems? This proves anybody can do this, they just don&#8217;t want to! They&#8217;re too busy putting rims on their cars! Why not just admit the experiment is of course slanted, the way any actual journalist/investigator would, and move on?</p>
<p>Oh, I forgot. His personal experiences can of course be extended to everybody in America. </p>
<p>I was also disappointed by the overall level of writing in the book, but that&#8217;s what happens when a rich kid who skated through college on daddy&#8217;s money writes a book.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Hannah</title>
		<link>http://blog.filife.com/adam-shepard-loves-being-poor-except-that-hes-not/#comment-1054</link>
		<dc:creator>Hannah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 18:59:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shepherd is young, but then, every middle-aged person was young once, and would therefore have that particular advantage. However, I'm assuming Shepherd also had good health dental care as a child. Most importantly, he's educated. I read a couple other interviews with him, and I can't believe he actually denies that his education helped him! He really thinks that the fact that he has a college degree didn't matter because he didn't tell people about it. 

I'm sure his alma mater would be happy to learn that a college degree is worth a line on a resume and nothing more. The fact is, his education has helped him become poised and articulate. I'm sure it improved his communication and leadership skills. It also helped him learn to think critically, a crucial job skill. All of those factors, I'm sure, helped him while he was looking for jobs.  

Was there anything specific you didn't like about the book, other than his general attitude?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shepherd is young, but then, every middle-aged person was young once, and would therefore have that particular advantage. However, I&#8217;m assuming Shepherd also had good health dental care as a child. Most importantly, he&#8217;s educated. I read a couple other interviews with him, and I can&#8217;t believe he actually denies that his education helped him! He really thinks that the fact that he has a college degree didn&#8217;t matter because he didn&#8217;t tell people about it. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure his alma mater would be happy to learn that a college degree is worth a line on a resume and nothing more. The fact is, his education has helped him become poised and articulate. I&#8217;m sure it improved his communication and leadership skills. It also helped him learn to think critically, a crucial job skill. All of those factors, I&#8217;m sure, helped him while he was looking for jobs.  </p>
<p>Was there anything specific you didn&#8217;t like about the book, other than his general attitude?</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Mary Pilon</title>
		<link>http://blog.filife.com/adam-shepard-loves-being-poor-except-that-hes-not/#comment-834</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Pilon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 17:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Read it from cover to cover. Shepard's book, like all books, are of course up for interpretation and I respect your opinion, it just wasn't my cup of tea. Then again, I wade through financial writing for a living. I appreciate the spirit of his book, but think he missed some basic points. 

Thanks for the comments!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Read it from cover to cover. Shepard&#8217;s book, like all books, are of course up for interpretation and I respect your opinion, it just wasn&#8217;t my cup of tea. Then again, I wade through financial writing for a living. I appreciate the spirit of his book, but think he missed some basic points. </p>
<p>Thanks for the comments!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: JBS</title>
		<link>http://blog.filife.com/adam-shepard-loves-being-poor-except-that-hes-not/#comment-830</link>
		<dc:creator>JBS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 04:14:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, you certainly raise some interesting points. Actually, no you don't. 

What is so fascinating about Shepard's story is that he DID something, while the rest of us are blogging about it.

We whine and complain and whine and complain and whine and complain. But we don't offer solutions. 

Shepard does.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, you certainly raise some interesting points. Actually, no you don&#8217;t. </p>
<p>What is so fascinating about Shepard&#8217;s story is that he DID something, while the rest of us are blogging about it.</p>
<p>We whine and complain and whine and complain and whine and complain. But we don&#8217;t offer solutions. </p>
<p>Shepard does.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Peter Facklis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Peter Facklis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 03:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmmmm...something tells me you didn't read Scratch Beginnings at all. I did, and I certainly don't share your perspective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmmmm&#8230;something tells me you didn&#8217;t read Scratch Beginnings at all. I did, and I certainly don&#8217;t share your perspective.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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